Journey Sharing Group Discussion
In our humanity, we reach for coping devices to deal with the stresses of life. This is not an inherently sinful impulse. Coping devices can be holy, beneficial, or very unholy.
Beware, this is nitty-gritty life stuff. It’s where the devil wages war with us every day.
UNHOLY: Our enemy, knowing we need coping devices, surrounds us with a plethora of unholy options; all deceptively promising to divert and relieve our stress.
- Blatantly sinful temptations NO ONE is above these sins: sexual sins, greed, prideful pursuits
- Neutral things turned into obcession, become unholy coping devices: Politics; self-help initiatives; suspicious accusations and theories; current event speculations
- Good things can be taken to excess and turn into unholy coping devices:
- Home decorating, cooking, children or extended family, pleasure, vacations, hobbies, physical appearance, fitness, food and nutrition, health
- Interpersonal relationships or issues at church; minor theology disputes
- Clean, even Christian, novels, movies or fantasies.
- Facebook–busy body temptations, Pinterest–discontentment, Social Media–time wasters
Unholy coping devices often become a catalyst for sin, and here’s how.
- numb us from feeling spiritually focused emotions
- distract and deplete us from spiritually focused efforts and priorities
- drain our passion away from our life’s real mission and purpose
- because unholy coping devices produce the opposite of the comfort they promise, they leave us hallow, exhausted and discouraged; inciting a search for more unholy coping devices.
BENEFICIAL: Coping devices, such as hobbies enrich, nourish and provide an outlet for our God-given creativity. These wholesome coping methods, when appropriate to our life season and done in balance, are beneficial blessings from the Lord.
- Warning: Beneficial blessings can become curses. There’s a fine line between preventing burn out and an excuse to cop out of priorities. Be on guard. Sometimes exhaustion and laziness are kin in ways we don’t care to admit.
HOLY: The Lord has provided three Holy Coping Gifts/Provisions to deeply sustain us. These provisional gifts refresh, comfort, strengthen and restore us on a soul level.
HE Gives us…..
- HIMSELF (embedded in Himself is His Word) Psalm 62:5-8 TPT ; Psalm 27:8 NLT Psalm 119:114 & 116 TPT; Psalm 55:22 TPT;
- Nature Ps 19:1-6; Psalm 65:8; example of Jesus seeking solitary places in nature to pray and often to teach (ie: the sermon on the mount, feeding of 5,000, Garden of Gethsemane)
- Each Other Romans 1:11-12 TPT; 2Tim 2:7; Philemon 7 (fellowship & good works)